You're absolutely right about it being better to gently end a romance that isn't working as soon as it becomes obvious that it's not. That said, it doesn't make it any less painful and I am sorry that the romance didn't work, but very glad to hear that you are going to remain friends. Romance generally fades eventually anyway and the friendship is always what lasts longest and best, at least in my experience. *sending tons of supportive thoughts and virtual hugs your way*